"Hindi porket madalas mong ka-chat, kausap sa phone, kasama sa mga lakad o katext wantusawa e may gusto sayo at makaka-tuluyan mo na... may mga tao lang talaga na sadyang friendly, sweet, flirt o paasa.."
Sometimes you have to make the first move... As for these specific questions, first and foremost, the best way to get someone interested in you, is to be interested in * them *. What that means, is ask questions and listen to what they say. This doesn’t mean that you should start grilling them; but if you see them walking the dog you can walk up and say “wow, that’s a beautiful dog; what’s her name?” or if you see them checking the mail, ask “your lottery check show up yet?” or something like that; anything to get the conversation started. The other thing is to understand how guys think. You’ll always have success appealing to his ego; complement his car, his shoes, ask if he’s been working out, anything. The number one thing you have going for you, is once you show him you’re interested any guy worth while should take the hint and start pursuing * you* instead. And the best way to find out if he’s interested is, does he act interes...
What if you placed fewer conditions on your own happiness? What if you didn't place destination markers on your own happiness? "I'll be happy when I get home" or "I'll be happy when I pay off my house" or "I'll be happy when I have a new car", etc... What if you change the rules and make happiness a natural way of living? Remember, nothing in life comes labeled, YOU are the labeler. You can complain that roses have thorns or you can celebrate that thorns have roses. It's up to you! Take some time to reflect on the power you possess to control your labels. This universe is balanced. There is always something you can see as a positive in any situation. Throughout history, some of the greatest messages have come out of the greatest messes. Happiness is a gift just waiting to be unwrapped. It needs to be found. And finding happiness should not be seen as finding a needle in a haystack. Each day is a blessing that brings an abundance of happ...
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